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November . . I always think it's going to be a quiet month, where I can get things done and have a peaceful time.  Butley Priory has been packed with wonderful events - something going on every weekend  . . and then there's getting the chimneys swept, taking in the garden furniture, the stonemason has been here invisibly repairing 12C buttresses that were frost damaged last year, the alders around the ponds to thin,  . . . ah dear reader . . a thousand things to think of!

Not to mention ordering the Christmas tree and planning our carol singing bonanza on December 10th (all welcome, gifts to Compassion in World Farming -  vegan mince pies and mulled wine will be offered!)

I am learning, however, that the trick to all of this is to personally have a quiet month anyway!  despite what may be going on around me, despite my list making, relentlessly energetic mind.

Inside, I have my own weather, and it is nice to be in synch with the ebb and flow of the seasons. I have so enjoyed watching the showers of golden leaves coming down, and nature getting ready to bed itself in for winter.  Just a walk round the drive can restore me.  Or if I am not here at home, just imagining it can work!  Have a wonderful peaceful week everyone.

Mind and body

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This month seems to be connecting to ourselves month - which suits the landscape, the quiet time of year as the season rolls into winter.

We have had two fabulous yoga retreats already this month, with a weekend devoted to health and fitness run by  . . . . . coming up!  The Retreat Sisters . . . . . were here on the first weekend of the month for what looked like a really beautiful time,  and my daughter Jayna Cavendish from KIND Yoga came last weekend with the Secret Yoga Club for another wonderful weekend where we focussed on chakras.   The photo above is from the treatment room, where utterly luxurious massages were available . .mmm!   Delicious vegan food was consumed, long walks were taken, friendships made and, I think it would not be exaggerating to say, lives transformed.

It always amazes me, the power of doing things with like minded people, as a group.  Being somewhat solitary by nature, I usually flinch from the idea of 'joining in',  but there is no doubt about the benefits . . . every time!  

 

The beginning . . .

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For anyone interested in how I came to be living in this extraordinary house, I thought I would share a post this week from my ex!  Im taking this highly unusual step because what he wrote so brilliantly describes our first impressions of coming here . . it was this time of year - and one of those mornings when despite the rest of the county being bathed in morning sunlight, a sea hag had crept up across the marshes (as occasionally happens here) and the house seemed literally to be surrounded by its own strange and chill aura!  I have to admit for me it was NOT 'love at first sight'  Took me a couple of visits till  I too was hooked. . . .  This post from Ned Cavendish last week.

 

"A house, if you can call it that which I helped restore, lived in for a while and love. Just now, reading this unique building’s chronological story I was taken aback by how much of my country’s history was entwined with the building’s own. Although I knew most of the stories in isolation I never saw them before in their entirety and what a fascinating story it is. We first saw it on a freezing, foggy winter morning in very poor light in 1985.   In its neglect it seemed like some ancient mammoth about to give its last gasp and collapse to the ground, going indoors was like entering a walk in freezer, it had not been lived in for some time and an eviction order was nailed to the door, brambles and undergrowth were beginning to creep up and obscure the walls, for me it was love at 1st sight. Putting the initial chill aside it is an incredibly warm and friendly building despite its appearance and size. 
Frances Shelley, my former wife and my 2 daughter’s Bess and Jayna band name AYA have kept this special building warm and alive, it gives so much pleasure to literally hundreds of people every year as a venue for weddings, concerts, yoga, workshops, and a whole lot of other things. People love being in and around this extraordinary building, if some buildings have a touch of magic this is certainly one of them."

 

AUTUMN VIBES

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Came out of the cottage here at the weekend to this dreamy sight on ‘the hill’ in front of the main house.. Coupled with a sort of ‘Far from the Madding Crowd’  atmosphere . . . I wish them the very best for a long and happy life together. 

 

Wild and windy days!  Personally I love this weather- I love the feelings of the world being swept clean, change and renewal.

 

My excitement last week was seeing my daughters play to a packed 2000 seater theatre at Shepherds Bush Empire!  Their band AYA instey.com/ayamusiclondon was supporting the hugely successful Lamb, and it was their first major concert of this size.  Proud? As I wrote previously, my heart was full!   As any parent will recognise, it’s the moment when you can’t help remembering all the numerous ‘concerts’ that me and the animals and any random passer by weresummoned to when they were children .. . .Butley has of course always been somewhere that brings out the creative!

I have booked AYA to play here in the New Year!  Probably February, date to be decided.

Meanwhile,  enjoy the wind and the colours out there . . and create something beautiful!

Frances 

MUSIC IN THE AIR

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I've had a fun weekend playing at the Flipside festival at Snape Maltings http://www.flipsideuk.org/whats-on-at-flipside-festival/713/pianofield.  Fell in love with the Steinway in the Jerwood Kiln.  Oh dear .  . I want one!   It is a special relationship between performer and piano . . each instrument is so individual.  I was given my beautiful old John Broadwood when I was only 6 years old and had just started to play.  Having it in my life has definitely helped to form my life, and who I am.  (Interesting to speculate what would have transpired had it been. say . a trombone . .)

I love how much people enjoy playing it here in the Great Hall.  As you can see it is not in the first gleam of its youth, in fact a little lined and worn you could say.  (no analogies thanks . .) But a surprising number of visitors say it's one of the reasons they booked the house.     

You can hear it in action on December 10th when we are planning our annual Carol Singing Night.  All welcome - come and sing your heart out. 

We also will be at some point having the fabulous band AYA (my daughters Bess and Jayna) here to play after they finish their tour with Lamb, which is coming up this week, great excitement!  Read all about it in the link below.  Not sure of the date for AYA at Butley yet so keep a look out,  and join our mailing list if you want to be kept in the loop.

https://en-gb.facebook.com/AYAMusicLondon/

So. . enjoy this week as never before!  Frances

 

 

 

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FRESH AIR...

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Hi all you busy people!

Took some time off from rehearsing for my performance next weekend at the Flipside Festival (which I am super excited about! http://www.flipsideuk.org/whats-on-at-flipside-festival/713/pianofield) and have come up to Perthshire for my mums 96th birthday.

Somehow being up here in the mountains, going for long walks, spending time with family puts everything back into persepective. My 'to do' list suddenly seems mostly unimportant and I get back in touch with the real stuff.

‘Family’ being a bit of a number one.  I come to Scotland where my mother lives, and am reminded why so many people come to Butley Priory for the same reasons.  Getting together matters.

Frances

S M I L E !

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Good morning!  People often ask me do I mind having loads of people traipsing around in my house.  Good question, and the answer (I’m happy to say) is emphatically no I don’t!

 

Okay sometimes if Im home around 11 pm on a Saturday night I start to thinkp l e a s eturn down the music! It’s true . .

But on the whole having the house ringing with laughter and filled with so much fun and joy is an infectious life affirming thing. I so often wonder what those old monks would have thought?! I think they’d have loved it. .

 

Since last blog we’ve had two beautiful weddings and a christening celebration . .

Seeing the genuine smiles radiating on people’s faces is a real delight. In fact ‘concious smiling’ is something I’ve recently taken up – because it makes you feel good.  I read somewhere that you acctually can’t feel cross, bad, angry or any other sort of negative emotion when you have a big broad grin on your face.  It’s true, try it!

 

Have a lovely smiley week then!

 

Frances

First ever post!

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Hi everyone,

Good morning.  New resolutions – I love them!  I am publicly resolving to run a weekly blog on our beautiful new website.

OK its good for expanding our reach apparently, but also because it’s just SO lovely here and I want to share it all with you!  

I love the changing seasons – especially this one – I start to reflect on the year and all that’s happened, and how amazing it has been.

One of the great things is that we are now hosting more weekday events, and really interesting ones! We had great fun when Charlie XX and her songwriting team all came here from Sweden for a week in August,  and this week we have the beautiful Ponderosa and Thyme here with 16 talented florists and hordes and hordes of fabulous flowers for a wedding floristry workshop week!

It feels good – the sun is shining and the hedgerows are blooming.   

May you also bloom and choose joy this week!

Frances

PS  I love how my picture of Daniel in the Lion’s Den watches over the flowers.  This picture has been in my family all my life and has majorly affected my life, made me so much braver!